Hey Lovers,
It's been a while I have posted on here. I honestly do miss it, I have a lot of thought and pieces to write down but this is just a short one for today.
The happiness bug: over the years , well for me , a few years ago I reached the conclusion that happiness is self made. You have the keys to your level of happiness. However your environment also contributes. What I mean is, you cannot receive positive energy from negative people, and sad people will not project happiness to you.
If someone in your surrounding has the flu, there's a high chance they will pass the 'bug' to you. Likewise the happy bug, you can catch it too. But look for it in the right environment.
Also by making those around you happy ,you can spread the bug. the happy bug.
I main priority used to be concentrating on work , that is earning more money because that equals more disposable cash.but then I had to seek the middle ground and even though if I'm honest I haven't found the perfect balance, but I now put some particular things above others, like I would not put in extra work hours over taking my son to football, or taking a holiday or spend time with my man or kids or take my daughter swimming and many of her numerous hobbies lol , inadvertently I have noticed a huge difference in everyone of them, they are happier.
Spending time with those you love is far above any kind of money, wealth, acquisition .. Tomorrow is not promised as they say. Carpe Diem! Seize the day.
This also relates with negative environment, separate the wheat from the chaffs in your life, don't
spend time at all with people who put you down or make you sad. Bad idea! Do yourself the favour and delete ,erase , bin! Run for the hills because these company has MISERY tagging on to it.
I don't keep too many friends because I love myself. I only keep those who I genuinely enjoy their company or makes an impact in my life or that of my family. And I'm happy to say those friends do exist , is that selfish? No, it's self-love . If I sense ingenuity or see ingenuity, I dis-engage... Yes I'm the life of the party and also can be a social recluse this is a tactic an armour of protection. I protect myself, my own, my happiness. Because at the end of the day, I have worked hard ( literally) to get myself to the head space I am now.
Protect Yourself. At the end of the day, happiness is a choice, so choose it.
Till my next post,
Love and light
Toke. Xx
